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I remember staring at my cereal, pretending it didn’t sting.
We weren’t invited. Not because of scheduling conflicts or space limitations. Simply because we weren’t his responsibility in that way.
Mom tried to soften it later. “It’s their tradition,” she said gently. “They’ve always gone together.”
And we were never chosen.
Over the years, I learned to lower my expectations. I told myself it didn’t matter. I focused on school. On getting out. On building a future where I wouldn’t have to measure my worth against someone else’s daughters.
I thought I had made peace with it.
And suddenly, every Disney vacation, every unspoken comparison, every “equal” contribution came rushing back like it had happened yesterday.