How to respond to a person who acts like a victim | I should have said

Bad stuff happens to all of us. You may have had a parent die, been in an accident or have been laid off, which are all out of your control. You are not responsible for the situation. All you can control is how you respond to the event.

1. If everywhere you go there’s a problem, guess what?

2. Some people create their own storms and then get upset when it rains.

3. Some people try to make other people feel responsible for the way they feel.

4. When you don’t accept responsibility for your actions your life can’t change.

5. It is always easy to blame others, it is much more productive to figure out how you ended up in this situation.

6. Blaming others takes energy away from improving yourself.

7. You can stop playing the victim now, everyone bought it.