4 Houses You Need to Stop Visiting When You Get Older (No. 3 Is the Most Common)

But if you disappear, no one asks about you.

If you need something, they’re nowhere to be found.

The pattern becomes clear when you stop making excuses.

Helping isn’t the problem.
The problem is when the relationship becomes an invisible contract where you only exist because of what you can offer.

A simple exercise helps to see it clearly:

If tomorrow you couldn’t help with anything, would they still seek you out?

If the answer is no, then it’s not closeness… it’s convenience.

4. The house where you always feel like a burden
Here, no one kicks you out or openly offends you.

But the atmosphere says it all.

You arrive and it feels like you’ve interrupted something.

The greeting is polite but distant.