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But instead of turning it into a confrontation, I chose something else.
“It’s okay,” I said lightly. “Next time, we’ll go somewhere that matches both our budgets. Tacos, maybe?”
We stayed longer than expected, talking more honestly than we had in a while. She admitted she sometimes assumes everyone can “just split it” the way she can. I admitted I sometimes struggle to restate my boundaries when I feel brushed aside.
It wasn’t a fight.
