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2. Sincere empathy
When you get to 60 years old, you have baggage to come along with that age. We all do. You have your scars, both visible ones and those hidden inside your chest. You’ve lost loved ones, experienced heartbreaks that you thought you wouldn’t be able to live through, and you’ve even messed up so badly that you regret what you’ve done when you lie awake at night at 3 am.

This is why emotional awareness is an absolute must-have. You won’t want anyone who will pass judgment or attempt to fix your past mistakes. Instead, you’ll want someone who understands what the past means to you and can understand without you having to explain anything.

This empathy doesn’t refer to weeping over a film scene but to the capacity to allow someone to have a bad day without taking it personally. This is the respect of someone’s “emotional rhythm.” If you feel reserved, then a good partner will not pester you asking you what is wrong with you ten times in a row.

It is hard to exaggerate how important it is from the standpoint of men who used to suppress emotions for decades of their life. We spend years learning to be our partner’s rock, provider, and a pillar of strength. What if a person could meet someone with whom they wouldn’t have to pretend they don’t have worries or doubts, and that person would accept them without judgment?

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3. The power of “you do you”

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