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The Western shift: Bringing the memorial home
The traditional funeral, at least in Western societies such as the United States and Europe, is changing rapidly. We have shifted from ritualized and formal funeral practices to those that seem more personalized. It is now considered perfectly acceptable to find an urn sitting on one’s bookshelf or nightstand, amid photographs and candles.

The presence of those ashes serves as consolation in saying that final farewell. It is not uncommon to see a person conversing with the urn while enjoying a cup of coffee in the morning or taking it out during the festive period since it brings about the feeling of wholeness within the family.

At the same time, we do witness a lot of customization. In some instances, the ashes are shared among family members such that every person close to the deceased ends up getting a share, whereas in other cases, the ashes get turned into jewelry and even pieces of art made of glass. However, this isn’t something everyone agrees on in the West either.

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