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He talks about:
A future together after knowing you for days or weeks
How “different” you are from everyone else
But intensity without time isn’t romance — it’s control in disguise.
Healthy connection grows gradually.
Creepy attachment tries to lock you in early, before you’ve had time to notice the cracks.
3. He Makes You Feel Watched, Not Cared For
There’s a difference between interest and surveillance.
Commenting on when you’re online or offline
“Joking” about knowing where you are
Remembering details you never chose to share
Being watched feels tight in your chest.
If you feel like you’re being monitored instead of appreciated, listen to that feeling.
Why it matters:
When someone makes you anxious, your body knows before your brain does.
His exes
Female coworkers
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