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He talks about:

“Never feeling this way before”

A future together after knowing you for days or weeks

How “different” you are from everyone else

At first, it feels exciting.

But intensity without time isn’t romance — it’s control in disguise.

Healthy connection grows gradually.
Creepy attachment tries to lock you in early, before you’ve had time to notice the cracks.

If he’s rushing emotional closeness, ask yourself why.

3. He Makes You Feel Watched, Not Cared For
There’s a difference between interest and surveillance.

Red flags include:

Commenting on when you’re online or offline

Asking why you didn’t respond fast enough

“Joking” about knowing where you are

Remembering details you never chose to share

Care feels safe.

Being watched feels tight in your chest.

If you feel like you’re being monitored instead of appreciated, listen to that feeling.

Comfort Recipe: Warm Soup
Soup is regulating. It helps bring you back into your body.

Why it matters:
When someone makes you anxious, your body knows before your brain does.

4. He Disrespects Other People — Especially Women
Pay attention to how he talks about:

His exes

Female coworkers

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