That distinction became important in the discussion surrounding Kourtney’s Poosh article.
Rather than presenting self-attraction as something that automatically replaces attraction to a partner, therapist Casey Tanner’s perspective explored the possibility that the two experiences can exist alongside one another.
Someone might enjoy being admired by a partner while also enjoying feeling attractive for themselves.
Someone might dress up because they like how they look rather than because they want someone else to notice.
Someone might enjoy taking care of their appearance because the experience makes them feel confident, comfortable and connected to their own body.
